A quiet moment…

It’s the end of a tough week here. The cancer situation continues to impact our lives in ways we’d never imagined. Lisa’s spending increasing amounts of time in Belfast looking after her mother. It’s a life of shopping, doctor and hospital appointments and tending to her mother at home. She fits in work when she can, [...]

Daniel and the wrist-slashing incident

Right, let’s talk about the night of 1st July 2009 and the bloody, wrist-slashing adventure that ensued. We’d only buried my father at the weekend, and with that rather large event behind us, there was suddenly a metric ton of paperwork to take care of. Notifying all the various companies he had accounts with, getting [...]

Cancer everywhere

Let’s come straight out and say it: Lisa’s mother has been diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer. The events that led up to this have been unfolding over the past month, and a fairly concrete diagnosis came something over a week or a fortnight ago. Lisa, naturally, was devastated. She didn’t help herself much by doing some [...]

Deathbed scenes and false alarms

To say that the last few weeks have been stressful would be pushing the art of the euphemism to its absolute limits. My father’s condition has deteriorated (he has cancer) since his second round of chemotherapy. Suddenly, I’ve been dealing with some overwhelming emotions – intense grief and a sadness that I’ve never felt before. [...]

An impending death in the family?

This could be quite a difficult post to write, because as I type this, my father is seriously ill in hospital. The outlook is not good for him. All of this started almost three weeks ago. We had returned from a short trip to London and the very next morning got a phone call from [...]

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